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One of our most compelling qualities as humans, is our capacity for gratitude. Of course, for Americans, Thanksgiving is the ultimate occasion for giving thanks, for expressing gratitude. Thanksgiving is the perfect time for parents to instill within their young ones a sense of gratitude for what they have and for the opportunities they are given. It is quite important that you teach your children how to be gracious and grateful in all that they do.

On Being Gracious

A person cannot recognize their true sense of self worth without knowing how to be gracious. Only by learning about graciousness can a child, or any person, for that matter, learn to really appreciate life itself. The truth is, we are all, each and every single one of us are born equal; children need to be taught about equality and gratitude. A child needs to recognize that he or she is only one amongst many and that the world does not solely revolve around them. Children who learn to be humble and gracious are happier than those who do not.

Parents, thus, need to inculcate a sense of gratitude within their children. This will help them grow up to be kinder, more sensitive beings. They will learn be considerate of other people and they will learn to value what they have. Children should learn to recognize what their parents have given them; they should be aware of the effort and the work it takes to raise them. Only then will they be able to recognize how to be self reliant and capable of being an independent individual. Then they can take their place in society and in their own families.

Every family member has a special role to play in life. Children need to be taught to be independent so that they can realize their special roles. They need to be able to do things on their own without relying on the aid of others. This is the key to their future success. Children need to understand the great value in repsonsibility and in gratitude. These are attributes that will help your child succeed.

Today's incredibly fast paced lifestyles and unchecked consumerism make it hard to teach children the value of simple things. All too often, they get too caught up in owning things and desiring things. They will be easily persuaded by ads and by the pressure to have. As a parent, it is up to you to teach them to cherish what they have and to appreciate the important things in life, the things which don't come with huge price tags.

Teach your children to be considerate. Teach them the value of love and the value of being gracious. Teach them that it is often the small things in life that count.

There are plenty of resources out there on teaching children to grow up to be good, honest and intelligent people. You can find books, articles, magazines and websites dedicated to the matter.